Human relationships are a complicated thing, aren't they?
Sometimes you feel like you're lost in their depths. But! In this article, I will help you navigate and even learn much more about yourself than you expected.
You know that nothing comes into our lives by chance. Then why do you accept people who come as irritants? Here's what! If I tell you that everyone who annoys you is here to teach you something. And even if you run away, if you haven't learned the lesson, that same lesson will be taught to you by another person.
People are your mirrors!
And the universe sends you people who are your own reflection. Yes! What you see in them is your projection. If you are repulsed by some quality in others, if someone annoys you, if they act badly or hate something, it is not by accident. It's because there's something about you that attracts him. If it's not in you, you won't even notice it. It won't impress you.
What if I told you that some of our most valuable people are the ones who annoy you?
Yes! For anyone who develops, these people are invaluable because they provoke us to develop. These people open up a field for you to develop.
There are four types of reflection. Here are the ones:
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He irritates you because his quality is unmanifested in you.
And it literally stings you. For example, you are endlessly irritated by egoists. When you meet a selfish person, you are unforgiving. You hate him in every way. This is because this person reminds you of what you have not developed in yourself. You don't know how to take care of yourself. You always put yourself last. You are overtired. You are neglected. That one reminds you how far you've fallen. That's why it stings and irritates.
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He annoys you because you have the same quality.
For example, he is lazy. You are also lazy. You know how much this bothers you. And when you see a lazy person, it reminds you that you haven't dealt with yourself yet, and you start to hate that person. But he didn't actually do anything to you. Just reminding you!
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He annoys you because he is uncomfortable for you and does not "catch" your delusions,
he doesn't let you shove your excuses at him. He doesn't like your tricks of twisting the truth. With such people around you are forced to look within yourself. To revise some beliefs. To expand. You should perceive such people as priceless. They really open a field for expansion in you.
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It irritates you because it reminds you of some trauma, pain or wound.
But this type is infinitely valuable because it shows you where you have not yet come to peace with your past. And this is something that is important to work through or forgive. You can use this practice for Clearing negative experiences and Forgiveness. With it, you will easily come to peace with the past and the unpleasant people and events in your life. You will also come to peace with yourself.
Invaluable four types of irritants.
Four types of coverage from which there is much to learn. Every person is a mirror, reflects something in yourself that attracts him to you.
Once you take the lesson, you will realize that they literally disappear from your life. Without even feeling it.
Life is Beautiful...YOU are Beautiful!
Author Milena Goleva
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